In this reflective piece, the author shares their experience of conversing with deceased loved ones, particularly their mother and father. While not religious, they find solace in imagining a continued bond with their mother who suffered from Alzheimer's, and a rekindled connection with their father after years of his absence. The themes of memory, loss, and the longing for deeper conversations permeate the narrative, illustrated by the recent passing of a friend. The author also describes engaging with another deceased friend, Herbie, who seems to provide guidance in their everyday life, showcasing the emotional complexity of grief and remembrance.
I've been spending a lot of time talking to the dead, primarily having conversations with my mum that we never finished due to her Alzheimer's.
Mum's death oddly revived my conversations with my dad, who I've missed dearly and regret not having more discussions about his past.
The recent loss of a close friend highlights the ever-increasing death count in my life, intensifying my need to connect with those who've passed.
I have regular chats with Herbie, who, unlike the others, somehow still feels present and provides me advice on navigating daily life.
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