Dear Abby: How should I warn them about what's happening in the breakroom?
Briefly

The article discusses concerns of office hygiene regarding a new employee using contaminated tap water for drinks instead of using the filtered water from a cooler. The letter writer fears for her colleagues' health and seeks advice on addressing the issue without causing conflict. Additionally, the second letter addresses the retiree's increasing resentment towards her husband's expectation for her to handle more domestic responsibilities after retirement, emphasizing the importance of establishing boundaries in relationships.
I agree the employees in your office should know about this. At least they will be on notice about which poison they are consuming. Report this to HR.
I have spent 40 years serving the public and my country, putting other people first and feeling guilty if I didn't. However, I am becoming resentful of the demands for my time.
Once I retired, my share of the household chores and errands increased from 75% to 90%. I wanted to make life easier for my husband, but now he expects me to run personal errands for him, too.
The demands on my time have multiplied, and I feel as though I'm taken for granted, leading to resentment. It's crucial to set boundaries.
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