"Dear Running, I work full-time and it's really stressful to fit pumping into my schedule. My breasts are constantly sore and I am always exhausted. Our daughter is beautiful and healthy and I want to do the right thing, but I don't know how much longer I can bear this. My husband doesn't want me to stop. Every time I mention formula, he gives me all the reasons why breast-feeding is best. He suggests I talk to our doctor or La Leche League."
"Mom, return the pump, toss the lactation bra, and get an economy-size container of formula. At great personal cost, you have breast-fed your daughter, she has gotten plenty of benefit, and now she would benefit even more from a happy, rested mother. Read Hanna Rosin's article, " The Case Against Breast-Feeding," which shows that the popular literature on breast-feeding overstates the scientific certainty of its superiority."
A five-month postpartum mother working full time is overwhelmed by pumping, experiencing constant breast soreness and exhaustion while feeling guilty about considering formula. She planned to breast-feed for a year but cannot sustain the schedule and faces a husband who insists on continuing and recommends medical or lactation-group resources. Returning the pump, discarding lactation gear, and switching to formula are presented as acceptable steps to preserve maternal health and happiness. Prior breastfeeding has already benefited the infant, transitioning to formula does not harm the child, and claims of breastfeeding's absolute superiority are portrayed as overstated.
Read at Slate Magazine
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