I'm a twin raising 2 sets of twins. I know I need to encourage their individuality.
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Kim Perell raises two sets of twins: 11-year-old fraternal twins and 6-year-old identical twins. Growing up as a twin was challenging due to competition with her sister. A focus on individual strengths and interests has shaped her parenting strategy. Perell fosters her children's unique interests, resulting in a hectic schedule involving four kids participating in different activities. Despite the chaos and challenges, she perceives her twin-centric family life as a blessing rather than a burden.
Growing up as a twin was tough; my sister was always smarter, faster, and stronger than me. When you have someone who shares your exact experiences and most of your DNA, you're going to compare.
My mom shared the saying, "Comparison is the thief of joy." She encouraged me to find my own areas to shine rather than competing with my sister.
I encourage individuality in my kids. My 11-year-old son is very into sports, while my daughter loves the arts and reading. I like that they have different interests.
It's a bit chaotic since everyone looks and sounds alike, but I love it. I see twin life as a blessing, even though there are some downsides.
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