Three Expensive Lessons I Learned Too Late About Money

"Looking back, it's easy to spot the moments where things could have gone differently. At the time, each financial decision felt justified, and sometimes even smart! Whether it was driven by optimism, pressure, or a belief that I could "figure it out later," I made choices that seemed reasonable in the moment but were costly over time. What surprised me most wasn't just the money lost, but how similar the underlying mistakes were."

"Financial mistakes are incredibly common, yet they're rarely reflected upon and discussed honestly or without shame. Sharing missteps helps normalize these mistakes and highlight the learning process. It also gives others a chance to recognize warning signs before making similar choices. By identifying the patterns behind bad financial decisions, people can develop better judgment, avoid unnecessary stress, and build healthier, more intentional relationships with money."

Personal financial decisions often felt justified at the time but proved costly over years. Three distinct choices shared similar underlying mistakes driven by optimism, pressure, or belief that problems would be solved later. Recognizing that pattern changed approaches to money, risk, and long-term planning. Open discussion of financial missteps can normalize errors, surface warning signs, and support better judgment, reduced stress, and healthier financial relationships. Long-term marriage to an adventurous partner led to frequent moves—24 so far—and repeated convictions that each home purchase was the final, prudent move, which contributed to repeated unwise housing decisions.

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