"If you're using condoms, go for non-lubricated, traditional latex. They're often too drying for a lot of people, but in your case, I think the downside might actually be a positive. If you aren't using condoms, you can finish up foreplay with some deep fingering, kind of scoop on your way out, and wipe your hand on anything appropriate and available. This might be a small towel, or it might be your own thigh."
"Lastly, sometimes pressure can be a functional substitute for friction. If that seems like it might work for you, try positions where her legs are squeezed together or even crossed. She can squeeze her legs in missionary—whether they're flat on the bed or she's bent at the waist—face down on the bed while you enter from behind, bent over a counter or braced on a wall from behind, or cross them in "spoon" positions where you're both lying on your side."
Excess vaginal lubrication can reduce penile sensation during penetration and can occur regardless of foreplay length. Using non-lubricated, traditional latex condoms can increase friction for the penetrating partner. When not using condoms, finishing foreplay with deep fingering and wiping excess lubrication on a towel or thigh can temporarily reduce slipperiness. Applying pressure instead of relying on friction can help: try positions that keep her legs squeezed or crossed, such as missionary with legs closed, bent-over or spoon positions, or woman-on-top with her legs between yours. Closed-leg positions provide more rubbing and grinding than thrusting.
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