"If you've been blindsided by this type of relationship ending abruptly three months later, then the viral "3-6-9" rule from TikTok could be for you. In a clip posted Sept. 6, creator @bbybergz says the rule is perfect for people who often forget to pace themselves at the start of a new relationship, as well as anyone who has unrealistic expectations when it comes to love."
"In another clip, @annabellegesson says the 3-6-9 rule also describes the stages of a new relationship and how it tends to unfold. To break it down, the first three months are the honeymoon stage, the next three are when life can get rocky and real, and the next three are when you should be able to decide if the relationship is worth your time. Here, a relationship expert explains this rule and how to use it to your advantage."
The 3-6-9 rule encourages evaluating chemistry, compatibility, and commitment across the first nine months of a relationship. Months 1–3 are the honeymoon phase when everything feels easy and exciting. Months 4–6 tend to reveal real-life challenges and test how partners handle conflict and stress. Months 7–9 provide a period to assess whether shared values, mutual effort, and problem-solving indicate long-term compatibility. The guideline helps people who rush into dating or get blindsided by ghosting to pace expectations and look for concrete signs of a genuine match before committing.
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