"My husband, he wanted to save young men, just like the one who took his life," she began. "That man, that young man, I forgive him. I forgive him because it was what Christ did and it is what Charlie would do." "The answer to hate is not hate," the widow added, in stark contrast to the president's words. "The answer we know from the gospel is love and always love, love for our enemies and love for those who persecute us."