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Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

People who say nothing in arguments and process everything later aren't conflict-avoidant, they figured out that anything said in real time gets weaponized and anything said later gets the courtesy of having been considered - Silicon Canals

Silence during conflict can be a learned emotion-regulation strategy that prevents real-time statements from being weaponized and allows considered responses later.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
6 months ago

Miss Manners: My neighbor's plus-ones are nice women, but they're outsiders

It bothers you, Miss Manners is guessing, because these outings are a chance for the neighborhood ladies to bond and connect. If members of the group are going to invite just anyone, who will be next? Husbands? Dates?! Of course, as these intruders happen to be pleasant and engaging, you could look at this as an opportunity to make new friends. Or you could be miffed because what you really want to do is gossip about the new mail person and exchange neighborhood secrets.
Relationships
Social justice
fromwww.aljazeera.com
10 months ago

One tick and anti-Semitic' fruit: The curse of being Palestinian

Being Palestinian can lead to humiliation and disciplinary actions even for expressing cultural identity in professional settings.
fromCreativeApplications.Net
10 months ago

War - Confronting conflict as it is spoken

War is a near real-time, physical manifestation of the language of conflict. It delivers quotes from news coverage of wars around the world, stripping away context and narrative to present war as it is: familiar, messy, and contradicting.
Web frameworks
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