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Digital life
fromSilicon Canals
21 hours ago

There's a specific kind of exhaustion that belongs to people who are fluent in three versions of themselves. One for work, one for family, one for the person they actually are at 11pm when everyone has finally stopped needing something. - Silicon Canals

Fluency across multiple identities is essential in modern life, but it comes with a hidden cost of constant translation.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Mental health

Quote of the day by Oscar Wilde: "Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Silicon Canals

Authenticity frees from exhausting performance, aligning relationships, work, and life with the true self despite the risk of rejection.
Digital life
fromSilicon Canals
21 hours ago

There's a specific kind of exhaustion that belongs to people who are fluent in three versions of themselves. One for work, one for family, one for the person they actually are at 11pm when everyone has finally stopped needing something. - Silicon Canals

Fluency across multiple identities is essential in modern life, but it comes with a hidden cost of constant translation.
SF music
fromFuncheap
1 day ago

Free Multimedia Concert: Women Crossing/Liminality (SF)

Ensemble for These Times presents a multimedia concert focusing on women's immigration and identity through contemporary chamber music.
#retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago
Retirement

I'm 66 and I've been retired for four years and the strangest part isn't the boredom or the money or the free time - it's that I finally have space to think and I'm realizing I don't actually like the person I built my entire career around becoming - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Mindfulness

I thought retirement meant freedom but what I found instead was a mirror, and what was looking back at me was a person I'd been avoiding for forty years - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Wellness

I retired with a full pension, a paid-off house, and a loving wife, and by month four I was sitting in my truck in the driveway wondering what the point of any of it was - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Mental health

What happens to your sense of identity when you retire after 40 years in the same career - Silicon Canals

Wellness
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

8 things people wish they'd prepared before retiring - now it feels too late - Silicon Canals

Retirees often feel lost because they prepare financially but neglect social connections, identity, and daily purpose outside the workplace.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

7 things people who are miserable in retirement all have in common-money wasn't the problem - Silicon Canals

Many financially secure retirees feel miserable because their identities remain tied to their careers, making purpose and self-definition difficult after retirement.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

I'm 66 and I've been retired for four years and the strangest part isn't the boredom or the money or the free time - it's that I finally have space to think and I'm realizing I don't actually like the person I built my entire career around becoming - Silicon Canals

Retirement can lead to self-reflection, revealing dissatisfaction with one's professional identity and prompting a reevaluation of personal values.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Mindfulness

I thought retirement meant freedom but what I found instead was a mirror, and what was looking back at me was a person I'd been avoiding for forty years - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Wellness

I retired with a full pension, a paid-off house, and a loving wife, and by month four I was sitting in my truck in the driveway wondering what the point of any of it was - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Mental health

What happens to your sense of identity when you retire after 40 years in the same career - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Psychology

7 things people who are miserable in retirement all have in common-money wasn't the problem - Silicon Canals

Arts
fromArtnet News
1 day ago

Inside Fashion/ Art Collective CFGNY's New York Takeover

CFGNY's exhibition 'Puddles into Pond' explores themes of identity, labor, and value through art and fashion.
Arts
fromVulture
1 day ago

The Trouble With Fame, Both Lost and Found: Bughouse and Tru

Two contrasting artists, Truman Capote and Henry Darger, represent different approaches to fame and creativity, highlighting the complexities of self-identity.
NYC parents
fromQueerty
1 day ago

Country singer Luke Combs on writing a song supporting queer kids: "I can't imagine feeling the pressure" - Queerty

Parents should support their children's choices without imposing their own expectations.
Women
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

Feminism in Film and the Impact on Women's Self-Perception

Feminist films enhance self-perception by portraying women as complex and human, challenging stereotypes and expanding possibilities for identity and ambition.
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
1 day ago

Religion taught them to hide who they are. They overcame & are living wonderful lives. - LGBTQ Nation

Readers share personal stories of conversion to self-acceptance, highlighting struggles with religion and the journey towards embracing their identities.
fromBOOOOOOOM!
1 day ago

Illustrator Spotlight: Cezar Berje

Cezar Berje's visual approach is a mix of chaos-vibrant colours, symbols, and new age psychedelia. His illustrations often suggest universes within universes, with each part of the image telling its own story through symbols and references.
Graphic design
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Being in your late 30s and suddenly understanding why your parents stopped having hobbies isn't depressing - it's the moment you realize that the gap between having interests and having the energy to pursue them is a gap that parenthood fills with something that isn't quite sacrifice and isn't quite choice, and naming it would require a word that doesn't exist yet - Silicon Canals

Parental role engulfment can overshadow personal identities, leading to the loss of hobbies and interests beyond mere time constraints.
Music production
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 day ago

BTS: Arirang review the world's biggest pop band return with dumb fun and downright weirdness

BTS's music has evolved, moving from K-pop roots to a more westernized sound, yet their new work aims to reclaim their Korean identity.
Podcast
fromFast Company
1 week ago

Finding balance isn't an act. It's a choice

Balance requires subtle, continuous adjustments and intentional choices about who to be, not just what to do.
Social justice
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

I'm 44 and I was the first person in my family to go to university-and the thing no one tells you about moving up a class is that you spend the rest of your life fluent in two worlds and fully comfortable in neither - Silicon Canals

Social mobility creates permanent cultural bilingualism where upward movement means distance from origins, never full arrival in either world.
Photography
fromBOOOOOOOM!
3 weeks ago

"In the Bedroom" by Photographer David Kaminsky

David Kaminsky stages collaborative domestic scenes to reveal how intimacy, conflict, and shifting identities coexist within home spaces across generations.
Television
fromBusiness Insider
3 weeks ago

The 'Knight of the Seven Kingdoms' finale just blew up Dunk and Egg's biggest secrets

The season finale implies Dunk may have lied about his knighthood, introducing new scenes that reshape his identity and future with Egg.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

The generation that built everything - coached the teams, hosted every holiday, fixed every broken thing in the house - is now sitting in quiet living rooms wondering why nobody calls unless they need something - Silicon Canals

Long-time fixers and providers can lose purpose and social contact as others become independent, leaving them quietly isolated despite not being ill.
Miscellaneous
fromThe Walrus
4 weeks ago

He Was a Legendary Newsroom Colleague. Turned Out He Had a Secret Past | The Walrus

An unexpected July 2020 email led to remembering Charles Saunders, a towering Halifax editor known for fierce editorials, playful newsroom presence, and mysterious American origins.
Mindfulness
fromDefector
1 month ago

I Finally Understand This Tara Lipinski Commercial | Defector

Your identity is shaped by the unique path you take; relationships, not trophies, guide purpose and authentic becoming.
#belonging
fromAdExchanger
1 month ago

The End of 'Good Enough' Data: Advertising's Shift Toward Defensible Performance | AdExchanger

One of the industry's most persistent misconceptions is that accountability lives downstream. Better reporting. Better attribution. Better dashboards. But, in reality, accountability begins far earlier, at the point where a business decides what it accepts as truth about identity. Who is real? Who is reachable? Who is persistent? Who has changed? Who should not be acted on at all? The uncomfortable reality is that every optimization decision that follows is only as credible as the answers to those questions.
Marketing tech
Startup companies
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

I'm in my 40s and I finally understand why my father ran the same small business for 30 years - it wasn't a lack of ambition, it was something I couldn't see in my twenties - Silicon Canals

Long-term fulfillment can come from steady mastery and contentment rather than constant expansion; ambition often reflects identity, not a simple binary of success or failure.
#photography
fromThe Art Newspaper - International art news and events
1 month ago

A brush with... Catherine Opie-podcast

Fundamental to her work is an exploration, as a queer woman and as a documentarian photographer, of the nuanced, multifarious nature of identity, most prominently in LGBTQ+ communities, but also far beyond them. She has committed from her earliest mature images to the idea that, as she has phrased it, "Without representation, there is no visibility"-a belief that remains more vital than ever in the US and across the world in the 2020s.
Photography
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Nostalgia isn't actually about wanting to go back - it's your mind's way of proving to itself that you were once capable of the kind of joy and purpose that feels impossible now. - Silicon Canals

You know that ache you get when you stumble across evidence of your past self being genuinely, effortlessly happy? It's not that you want to go back. Not really. I think what kills you is the proof staring back at you - proof that you were once capable of feeling that alive, that connected, that certain about where you belonged in the world.
Psychology
Film
fromVulture
1 month ago

Sandra Huller Gets Her Greatest Role Yet

A gender-disguised veteran returns to an isolated 17th-century farming community, revealing mutable identity amid austere, richly textured black-and-white cinematography.
Photography
fromItsnicethat
1 month ago

Rhythm, roots and revolution: Jennie Baptiste on capturing Black culture through photography

Jennie Baptiste combines a background in dance and performance with sensitive music photography that explores identity, mental health, and Black music culture.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Psychology of Religious Exit

Leaving a high-demand religious community dissolves one's interpretive framework, causing profound psychological trauma and pain similar to physical injury.
fromenglish.elpais.com
1 month ago

The Swedes searching for their Colombian mothers 40 years after their adoptions: They stole my identity'

When he was eight years old, Markus Lidman realized he was different from the other children in Pitea, a town in northern Sweden. They had all inherited the same pale skin tone as their parents. He, on the other hand, was dark-skinned. I decided to ask them if they were really my parents, and they told me they had adopted me in Colombia in 1982. They sat with me and showed me a video of the orphanage, he recalls.
Relationships
Books
fromEngadget
1 month ago

What to read this weekend: The unsettling new horror novel, Persona

A trans woman uncovers non-consensual pornography of herself and is drawn into escalating horrors involving identity, exploitation, internet influence, and economic precarity.
fromConsequence
1 month ago

Staff Picks: Best Songs of the Week February 7th - February 13th

The song reflects on two contrasting visions. In the first verse, he looks back on his childhood growing up female and compares it to living in a dream. Then, after a stirring bridge, he revisits the same reflective structure and ponders his childhood growing up as a boy: "When I was a little boy I wanted to be real/ I wanted to feel all of the things my body wanted me to feel," he sings.
Music
fromwww.kaltblut-magazine.com
1 month ago

Will we see each other again?

The light fades earlier, city lights turn on before the afternoon is over, and the wind bites the skin. During Scandinavian autumn and winter, people dress more warmly, and time slows down. I carry the memories and connections from summer longer than I should, still feeling them in my body. The longing for closeness and warmth is there, but it does not come easily. As everything around me changes, I do too.
Fashion & style
fromVulture
1 month ago

Sean Hayes's Theme and Variations: The Unknown

There's a refrain that follows Sean Hayes around in The Unknown, and it doesn't take much to hear echoes of The Phantom of the Opera in the way the playwright David Cale has arranged its scansion and melody. "I wish you'd wanted me," Hayes's character, Elliott, a playwright who's on a digital-detox retreat upstate, hears a mysterious voice singing somewhere outside his window.
Arts
Film
fromTODAY.com
1 month ago

Adopted at 6, She Legally Changed Her Name - and Chose a Disney Princess

An adopted foster-care child chose the name Jasmin inspired by Princess Jasmine, finding identity, resilience, and comfort in the film.
Philosophy
fromThe Conversation
1 month ago

An existentialist philosopher on why we should not let fear dictate love

Love can operate as a comforting illusion promising wholeness, while existentialism locates human incompleteness in thrownness and the responsibility to create meaning.
#migration
Bicycling
fromBikeMag
1 month ago

Made By Mountains: A Riding Film Worth Waiting For

Made By Mountains presents mountains as active forces that shape identity, community, perspective, and lifelong meaning through immersive, visual mountain-riding storytelling.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

How Do I Become the Real Me?

The singularly most important question we will ever ask is, "Who am I?" Generally speaking, we are not taught how to answer that question. We don't commonly even ask it. That is, until we reach a place where we are screaming into the abyss, waiting for the sound of an echo. And then, we want to know. But do we have to get to the edge of the abyss before we can even think of asking that question?
Philosophy
Psychology
fromFast Company
1 month ago

Advice from a neuroscientist: How to be resilient after things fall apart

Life upheavals can cause loss and identity shift, but cultivating an expansive self-identity and accepting uncertainty fosters resilience and enables growth.
fromExchangewire
1 month ago

Intent IQ integrates Identity-Driven Performance at Scale in Horizon Media's Newly Launched HorizonOS

Intent IQ, a leader in next-generation identity technology, announced the company will integrate identity-driven performance at scale in Horizon Media's newly launched HorizonOS-the industry's first marketing operating system built on an open, interoperable ecosystem of best-in-class technology partners. Audience amplification: Expanding the reach of prospecting campaigns to include users in iOS mobile web and In-App environments, as well as CTV and cookieless desktop browsers (Safari, Edge, Firefox, Chrome WebViews). ID-less retargeting: Enabling remarketing and re-engagement campaigns in ID-less environments Performance CTV: Driving CTV audiences down the purchase funnel by retargeting exposed CTV viewers on their iOS and other ID-less devices
Marketing tech
fromTiny Buddha
1 month ago

Staying Present in a Life That Isn't What You Expected - Tiny Buddha

For most of my life, I assumed that arriving was the point. Like many people, I believed adulthood would eventually deliver a clear role, a measure of security, and a sense of belonging I could point to and say, This is it. This is who I am. I trusted that if I worked honestly, followed what mattered, and stayed true to my values, that moment would come.
Mindfulness
Mental health
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

I was my grandfather's caregiver until he died, and the role gave my life meaning. Now I don't know who I am anymore.

Sustained caregiving reshaped identity, leaving deep loss, guilt, and uncertainty about rebuilding life after the grandfather's death.
Fashion & style
fromwww.kaltblut-magazine.com
1 month ago

Backstage at Nowrubi Fall/Winter 2026 INNOCENCE

INNOCENCE examines childhood as a formative, fragile, and subjective space, blending structured tailoring with flowing fabrics to reflect curiosity, uncertainty, and the tension between control and freedom.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

What Story Are You Telling Yourself?

Personal narrative, shaped by caregivers and experiences, defines worldview, governing assumptions, ambitions, expectations, and therefore determines actions and potential achievements.
Relationships
fromTiny Buddha
1 month ago

When Love Feels Like Pain: Lessons I Learned the Hard Way - Tiny Buddha

Staying in a toxic relationship erodes identity, voice, and emotional safety, trapping people in cycles of charm, criticism, and apologies.
Film
fromAnOther
1 month ago

Twinless: An Alarming Comedy about Grief, Friendship and Forgiveness

Twinless explores twin bereavement, identity, and deception through Roman's grief and a manipulative bond with another twin mourner.
fromPinkNews | Latest lesbian, gay, bi and trans news | LGBTQ+ news
1 month ago

Hollyoaks star pitched cross-dressing story himself for important reason

Labey stars as Rex Gallagher, a former gang member and the son of Fraser Black (Jesse Birdsall) and the late Grace Black (Tamara Wall). Rex has not been the nicest person to the residents of Hollyoaks but is trying to make amends whilst also processing his grief over Grace's death. As part of a new storyline, Rex was seen admiring his mother's clothes and put on her lipstick.
LGBT
Information security
fromThe Hacker News
1 month ago

When Cloud Outages Ripple Across the Internet

Cloud infrastructure outages can disable identity authentication and authorization, creating hidden single points of failure that cause broad operational and security impacts.
Productivity
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Quote of the day by James Clear: "Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become" - Silicon Canals

Every small daily action functions as a vote for the person one becomes; consistent tiny choices compound into identity and long-term outcomes.
#memory
Film
fromBig Think
1 month ago

From self-erasure to self-mastery: Ethan Suplee's second act

Ethan Suplee lost about 300 pounds and overcame addiction and identity struggles, transforming from an actor who hid behind roles into a fit, authentic person.
Books
fromAnOther
1 month ago

Makenna Goodman's New Book Is a Gripping Portrait of a Disgraced Professor

Explores who gets to live the 'good life', interrogating rural idylls, identity, empathy, cancel culture, obsession, and the complexities of love.
fromSecurityWeek
1 month ago

Cyber Insights 2026: Zero Trust and Following the Path

Zero trust is not a thing; it is an idea. It is not a product; it is a concept - it is a destination that has no precise route and may never be reached. But it is described very succinctly: trust nothing until the trust is justified. Justification starts with verifying every subject's identity and authority. This is the single constant in all zero trust journeys: they start with the subject's identity. Zero trust's reliance on identity, and identity's reliance on AI Two questions. Can you have zero trust without effective identity verification? No. Can you have effective identity verification in the age of AI? Maybe, and maybe not.
Information security
Fashion & style
fromKALTBLUT Magazine
1 month ago

NEXT GEN Winter 2026! Meet the Winners: ZEINA - KALTBLUT Magazine

Zeina's collection 'تراث' (Turāth, Heritage): Love Letters to Home translates personal heritage and memory into garments that question identity, belonging, and stereotypes.
Information security
fromMedium
2 months ago

Paco Nathan on Entity Resolution, Graphs, and the Future of Anti-Fraud AI

Reliable identity and graph-based entity resolution are essential to detect and stop modern financial crime that exploits relational networks and shell structures.
Social justice
fromMedium
3 years ago

Confessions of a Race Writer

Race writers risk performing a narrowed, victimized 'blackness' while often holding privilege and a platform to speak for marginalized people.
Yoga
fromYoga Journal
1 month ago

Your Weekly Horoscope, January 25-31, 2026: Reinventing Yourself

Neptune entering Aries begins a 12-year and 165-year chapter reshaping identity, desire, action, and spirituality, demanding surrender and alignment with truth.
Arts
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Keala Settle on life after the Greatest Showman: I ran from fear I drank, took pills, all of it'

Keala Settle portrays Mary Lincoln, confronting media vilification and pursuing personal reinvention while drawing on experiences of celebrity and grief to claim her identity.
fromMashable
1 month ago

Just got divorced - why am I seeing wedding content?

Long before social media feeds or targeted ads, my mother used to say that life tends to show you the thing you're looking for. Or the thing you're afraid of. Or the thing you keep insisting you don't want. If you were trying to get pregnant, suddenly everyone around you was pregnant. If you wanted out of your relationship, magazines on the grocery store rack were filled with tips on "spicing up your marriage." If you were single, you noticed couples everywhere.
Digital life
Music
fromKALTBLUT Magazine
1 month ago

Track Premiere: LIE NING - Bullfight - KALTBLUT Magazine

LIE NING's single 'Bullfight' confronts identity, desire, and socio-political urgency while blending indie, soul, and R&B across multidisciplinary artistic work.
Arts
fromJuxtapoz
1 month ago

Juxtapoz Magazine - Preview: Imon Boy's "Un poco distraido" @ Yusto / Giner Gallery, Madrid

Imon Boy's solo exhibition transforms diary-like, graffiti-rooted imagery into playful visual narratives blending street energy with gaming, internet culture, cinema, travel, humor and identity.
Psychology
fromTODAY.com
1 month ago

Her Adoptive Name Was Offensive in Some Cultures. At 25, She Changed It

An adoptee changed her first name to escape masculine connotations and cultural stigma and choose a name reflecting femininity, openness, and personal identity.
fromThe New Yorker
1 month ago

Reading for the New Year: Part Four

We meet him as a Gumby-like figure, asleep on a dirt floor, with only a jug of water and a toy horse. He has no idea how he got there. When he's around seventeen years old, Kaspar meets his captor, rendered in the book as a shadowy, hatch-marked father: "The Man in Black." The man teaches him to write his name; he teaches him to take a few fumbling goose steps outside.
Books
Film
fromConde Nast Traveler
1 month ago

'Rental Family' Director Hikari Finding Peace on Set Amid the Bustle of Tokyo

A Japanese director's film follows an American actor in Tokyo recruited to play stand-in roles, exploring identity, belonging, and moral dilemmas.
Psychology
fromFast Company
1 month ago

How leaders find the balance between adapting to others and being true to themselves

Leaders who equate authenticity with rigid self-expression often erode trust, exhaust teams, and undermine their effectiveness.
Relationships
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

A family therapist shares one major sign it's time to set boundaries with your family, like Brooklyn Beckham

Set firm boundaries when family interactions undermine your sense of self; Brooklyn Peltz Beckham declined reconciliation, seeking peace, privacy, and happiness.
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Is it ever a good idea to give someone a nickname? | Polly Hudson

Nicknames can strongly shape identity and relationships, prompting even legal name changes and signaling intimacy that must be timed and bestowed appropriately.
Fashion & style
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Tell us: what are you wearing right now and why does it matter?

Clothing functions as powerful non-verbal communication, reflecting identity, occupation, and workplace needs while enabling personal expression.
Music
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Why was it me?' Mon Rovia on going from war-torn Liberia to US folk-pop stardom

Mon Rovia, a Liberian-born singer-songwriter, channels childhood trauma and cultural displacement into intimate folk-pop addressing identity and colonialism.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Addressing Identity and Belonging in Cross-Cultural Marriages

Cross-cultural marriages reshape personal and joint identities, producing expansion, conflict, or marginalization while requiring co-created belonging across family, culture, and society.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

I Am No One, and That's Changed Everything

Realizing the self is not defined solely by roles or achievements enables psychological flexibility and deeper, less attached relationships with self and others.
Music
fromKALTBLUT Magazine
2 months ago

Video Premiere: VASSIINA - Katadiki - KALTBLUT Magazine

VASSIŁINA's 'Katadiki' video unveils a Greek-language album exploring awakening, religious fear, embodiment, and identity between London and Athens.
Parenting
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago

Gwyneth Paltrow says becoming an empty nester felt like 'a divorce'

Becoming an empty nester caused intense identity upheaval, prompting a career return and feelings likened to divorce and a major reckoning.
fromThe Nation
2 months ago

Fear of Nothing

February 2026 issue.When I was a child I was terrifiedof the space between One and Zero vast as the ages before my birthstrait as my death-late at night I heard my parents arguinglovingly in their locked room, the angora cat coming homewith a sparrow in her mouth, and the raindrops on the shinglescounting themselves-how to sleep, how to cross the empty placebetween the name "sparrow" and that limp thing crying,adamant, creating me with its cry
Writing
Wearables
fromDesign Milk
2 months ago

3Dtachable Collection From Liat Brandel Is Wearable Sculpture

3Dtachable Collection uses foldable, modular wearables to explore identity, perception, and conscious consumption through transformable surfaces and customizable coverage.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Disidentifying From Identity

One of my dear friends was recently caught up in this swirl and roil. An attorney in the Department of Justice, the days of DOGE forced her to choose among uncertain options and to try to find firm footing in a landscape that shifted from solid to sand on a dime. Should she stay or go? Retire early or risk being fired? Each option had potential consequences beyond where she might clock in each day. What of her career trajectory? Her sense of purpose?
Mindfulness
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Growth Is an Unlearning Process

Meaningful transformation begins with un-becoming: releasing inherited identities, beliefs, and adaptive survival strategies to create space for authentic, embodied growth.
Miami food
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago

I moved 3 hours away from where I grew up in Miami. After 15 years, I still love living within driving distance of home.

Living three hours from Miami preserves regular visits while allowing a quieter life and the ability to carry hometown culture into a new place.
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

Help! I Thought I Knew an Important Part of My Family's History. Turns Out, I've Been Living a Lie.

When I was 4 years old, my parents divorced, and my father moved away. I grew up thinking that my biological father was "John," but recently discovered that my mother had an affair with another man, "Allen." Allen is my biological father. This was a surprise and filled with a lot of drama, but it's gotten weirder than you'd imagine.
Psychology
Relationships
fromBuzzFeed
2 months ago

I Took My White Husband's Last Name. I Didn't Realize How It Would Affect The Rest Of My Life.

A multiracial Japanese-American woman changed her last name, a choice that intensified struggles with identity, cultural belonging, and recurring exclusion in both U.S. and Japan.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

How AI Illuminates the Architecture of Personal Transformation

A bounded, normalized structural constraint enables extensive internal reorganization while preserving continuity of self across radical psychological transformation.
fromPortland Mercury
2 months ago

You Come Find Me

I lost all my contacts. My number has changed, multiple times. I am being encouraged to build upon a false narrative. A false past. A clean slate, a story that is "permissible" to move forward. With those who are less than trustworthy or truthful. No questions are allowed. I did not willingly sign up for this. My current strategy is to survive.
Relationships
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