Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoI tracked every decision I made for a year that started with 'I don't mind, you choose' and realized I wasn't being easygoing. I was running a conflict avoidance protocol so deeply embedded I had genuinely mistaken it for having no preferences. - Silicon Canals
Many people who appear easygoing actually suppress their preferences to avoid conflict, rather than being genuinely indifferent.