fromSlate Magazine
1 week agoEvery Time I Try to Have Sex, My Brain Flips a Very Unwanted Switch. It's Torturous.
With my (and my partner's) current living situation, the only time I'm able to engage with erotica/masturbate/be intimate with my partner is quite late at night. I usually end up going to bed shortly after. Now, whenever I engage in intimacy, or even so much as daydream about it, I get suddenly very sleepy. While it's a not-so-neat party trick to fall asleep quickly, it also means I struggle with staying engaged and having energy during sex. As soon as I get turned on, I just feel so... cozy.
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