The article discusses the challenges of managing friendships for grade school children, particularly when parents have differing views on relationships. A Reddit user shares her experience when another mother expressed discomfort with her daughter having a male friend. The mother explained it was a general unease, unrelated to the boy, leading to confusion for Jenjersnap and concern over her child's feelings. Commenters on Reddit offered advice on how to respond diplomatically while conveying disappointment.
"Hi [Jenjersnap], after speaking with my husband last night he just doesn't feel comfortable with (their daughter) having a boy as a friend."
"This has absolutely nothing to do with [Jenjersnap's son], it is just a general thing he is uncomfortable with."
"I would respond ... 'Sorry to hear that. My son will be disappointed. Should anything change, please don't hesitate to contact me because we would still like the kids to be able to play.'"
"I would just say something neutral like, 'Sorry to hear that, but thank you for letting me know.'"
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