The author describes a contrasting relationship with her sister who struggles with weight, marriage, and job dissatisfaction. Despite efforts to help, including direct and passive approaches, the sister resists change, preferring to vent her issues. This highlights a significant emotional connection where the sister may feel safe sharing negatives without seeking solutions. The author feels overwhelmed but is encouraged to shift her approach to simply listening, providing emotional support rather than solutions, unless asked for help.
I approach things head on: if something is a problem, I start working on it. She, on the other hand, is very passive.
It hurts to see her stuck in life.
It's possible that the way you help your sister with the struggles she discusses is not by changing them but by letting her discuss them.
She might just want to share the feelings and have your patience.
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