"I am a man who was widowed 11 months ago. I met a woman on a dating site, and we clicked immediately. We have been enjoying each other's company for several months. We have a long-distance relationship. She lives three hours away. Although she indicated on the dating site her status as separated for two years, she still lives in the marital house with her husband."
"You have been a widower for only 11 months, and it appears you have glommed on to someone who really is not available. I don't know all of the circumstances of her marriage, but I have a strong hunch neither do you. Do you know for sure this person has actually filed for divorce? Because, as you stated, this relationship is not meeting your needs, it's time to pack it in and find a single local lady with whom to pursue a relationship."
A man widowed 11 months ago formed a long-distance relationship with a woman who listed herself as separated but continues living in the marital home. She has reportedly filed for divorce, though finalization could take time, and she cites financial reasons for not moving out. The man feels emotionally attached, sleeps alone during the week, and finds the situation taking a toll. The relationship is not meeting his needs and the future remains uncertain. He should verify the divorce status, consider ending the unavailable relationship, and seek a local partner whose availability aligns with his emotional needs.
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