The writer discusses a situation where her mother’s friend has arranged a meeting with his son, believing the writer would be a suitable match. Although she initially complies to avoid awkwardness in their church interactions, she finds the experience uncomfortable and unsuitable. Despite the son showing interest and his father’s follow-ups, she feels frustrated because she wished for a more direct communication from the son himself. The advice given emphasizes the importance of expressing personal boundaries and the necessity for the son to take initiative in their potential relationship.
Since it doesn't seem to be how you operate, respectfully tell whoever contacts you next that in order for you to figure out if you even like this man, you have to build a relationship with him.
If you are willing to talk to him or go out with him again, tell his father or your mother that this suitor needs to step up and make his own move.
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