"When I was finished using the facilities, I opened the door and faced a woman standing squarely in my way, scowling at me. After holding the scowl for a few silent moments, she said, I thought you'd never leave. Taken aback, I merely laughed awkwardly as we sidled past each other. Miss Manners, I promise I did not take an inordinate amount of time in the restroom. Was there a better way to respond?"
"A quick compliment is usually appreciated, but you were proposing a political discussion. Nevertheless, it is an important part of a legislator's job to listen to the views of constituents. He was foolish, as well as rude, to dismiss you so curtly. He could have said, I want to hear your views, but this is not the time or place to have a discussion. Then he could have suggested that you visit his office,"
One account describes encountering a scowling woman blocking the single‑stall ladies' room exit, who taunted, 'I thought you'd never leave.' The appropriate response is to remain polite; visible irritation and comments about someone's restroom use are rude. A second account describes attempting to engage a congressional representative at a neighborhood coffeehouse, only to be curtly told he was there to eat. Recognizable people deserve privacy when off duty, and brief compliments are acceptable. Legislative duties include hearing constituents, so a courteous reply could acknowledge willingness to listen later and propose meeting at the office.
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