The partner initially misrepresented his desire for children, leading to feelings of betrayal after a history of clear communication about wanting a family. Despite significant emotional connection, including kindness and support, the realization that he does not want kids has caused hurt and anger. The emotional conflict arises from the fear of being single and childless at 38. Deep-rooted anxieties exist regarding personal mental health and career as a touring artist, highlighting the complexity of navigating love versus a shared future vision.Children become a pivotal concern, overshadowing the relationship's positive aspects.
You have expressed a clear intention for a family since the beginning of the relationship. Despite the strong connection, the partner's ambiguity about wanting children led to feelings of betrayal and anger.
Being 38 and desiring a family, the feelings of loneliness and hopelessness in finding a partner who shares the same dream create a sense of urgency and despair.
The emotional conflict arises from balancing the desire for a family with the fear of losing a supportive partner who has demonstrated both love and betrayal.
Ultimately, the struggle lies in reconciling the love for the partner with the need for authenticity and alignment in future goals, especially regarding family.
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