I'm not just saying that he's lazy, unmotivated, and never takes her out or wants to travel with her, but yes to all of that. I hate how he makes her feel like she's asking for too much out of a partner. I hate how he tells her that he'll do something with her or for her then he doesn't.
I am in my late 40s and have young teenagers. I have been unhappy in my marriage for a long time. If I am honest, I should never have married my husband but I got caught up in the fact that all my friends were getting married and it seemed like the thing to do.