Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 days agoThis is how we do it: Since menopause, my sex drive has disappeared'
Sexual pressure comes from internal fear of total loss rather than from a partner.
Menopause has reduced sexual desire and enjoyment, making sex feel mentally disconnected.
Independence and living separately reduce obligation to have sex.
Grief and self-consciousness affect attraction assumptions and relationship security.
The relationship can remain strong as friends, but fairness and fear of loss create tension.
























