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1 day ago3 Ways to Defeat Our Own Worst Enemy at Work
A fixed mindset and personal inner conflict at work block problem-solving, but a flexible, solution-focused approach enables success.
At the next red light, I clicked the belt across my chest. In the distance, a white truck drifted into view. It began to swerve. I gripped the steering wheel with both hands and braced. The impact flipped my car forward three times, glass exploding in every direction, my head slamming into the steering wheel.
Adam wrecked a car and there were no consequences. He got a new car and wrecked that one as well. If there are no actual problems when something happens, he will never see the need to find a solution.
I never really thought the way that I would show up and play Traitors would be linked to one of the most darkest and most horrible moments of my life. If you didn't follow my story and what I went through and you watched me as the Bachelor in 2019 and then all of a sudden you're tuning in in 2026 - I had an incredibly difficult couple of years. I've grown and I've changed and I've put so much work into myself and into my family.
It was a pretty difficult time but, ultimately, it was a consequence of my own actions. I take full responsibility and accountability for the book, the decisions and how it landed and all those kinds of things, that's on me. It's my name and it's my face on the front of it.