"Among the recent messages my husband had sent to her was one in which he told her he was in hell living with me and he didn't give a damn about me. He also asked his sister if he could move in with her! (She was fine with that.) He said he would figure a way out, and that there was always a way out."
"This hurts so much because you were caught flat-footed, without a clue that your husband is planning on leaving you. Be glad you know, because you haven't a moment to waste. Schedule an appointment with an attorney who can help you protect yourself from the financial assault that's coming. If there are assets in the marriage, find out exactly what they are and take your cues from your lawyer. I am rooting for you."
A wife married 15 years to a former military man with PTSD reports long-term verbal abuse and controlling behavior. She supports the family financially, has a 14-year-old son, and found messages where her husband called living with her "hell," said he "didn't give a damn" about her, and asked his sister if he could move in. She feels devastated and conflicted and was advised to consult an attorney, inventory marital assets, and prepare financially for separation. A separate correspondent has pulmonary arterial hypertension, relies on weekly help from her mother who holds a key, and reports the mother removing items without consent and denying the behavior when confronted.
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