#attachment-anxiety

#attachment-anxiety

Complementary research conducted mostly with cisgender sexual minority men suggests that those who are high on anxious attachment-those most worried that people will not love them or find them good enough-are generally more likely to have anal sex without using a condom (Starks et al., 2017; Starks & Parsons, 2014). In other words, guys who are worried that a boyfriend or partner will think they are not good enough are more likely to agree to have sex "bareback."

Michael and David are gay men who met on one of those cringy, yet stimulating, hookup apps. They flirted through the app's messaging system before deciding to meet for lunch. Lunch? I know. How weird is that? What happened to down and dirty, meaningless sex? Yes, I'm being facetious. Actually, how thoughtful, refreshing, and lovely to meet for lunch. Michael is a "mature" man. Okay, an older man (he's sensitive about his age). He is intelligent, accomplished, well-educated,