#interpersonal-communication

#interpersonal-communication

Most textbooks and self-help manuals about communication are based on models that are seldom about what is between and beyond the interactions of individuals. There is assertiveness training, refuting irrational thoughts, conflict resolution, and so on. All without the infinitely wider contextual applications of living. Adversarial disagreements and polarization are at a high level, and couples therapists are overloaded with the presenting problem of "They are having communication discord."

If words of affirmation make you feel appreciated, you might assume that offering kind, affirming words will mean the same to your partner. But love isn't one-size-fits-all.