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2 hours ago

Blaming the Perpetrators: A New Take on Misinformation

The problem of people falling for falsehoods has become an urgent issue in recent years, as new technologies have conspired with sociopolitical currents within the culture to spread misinformation at unprecedented speed and reach. Psychologists who study this issue have focused mainly on individual vulnerabilities: the cognitive quirks and biases that predispose us to believe falsehoods, buy into lies, and give in to speculation.
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fromwww.theguardian.com
16 hours ago

The peacock parent problem: how to survive being raised by a narcissist

Children of narcissistic parents may not recognize parental narcissism until adulthood, affecting relationships and requiring specific support to recover.
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fromFast Company
9 hours ago

Success can be a trap. How to avoid being a one-hit wonder

Success can trigger a 'creative identity threat' that causes fear of risking reputation, paralyzing original thinking and reducing productivity after a major accomplishment.
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fromBusiness Insider
4 hours ago

Weaponized incompetence isn't just a problem for couples. Here's how your coworker might be taking advantage of you.

Weaponized incompetence is deliberately feigning poor performance to avoid responsibility, shifting tasks to others in personal and workplace contexts.
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fromPsychology Today
23 hours ago

Psychology, Crime, and Violence

Violent and criminal behavior arises from neurobiological and psychological anomalies, but many crimes require alternative explanations beyond impulsivity and humanistic assumptions of innate goodness.
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fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

Is it Me I'm Looking For? The Dark Side of Flexible Identity

Authenticity is dynamic: identity shifts across roles and masks, and genuine selfhood can emerge through flexible, even opposing, self-presentations.
fromFast Company
1 day ago

Why defiance is important and how to practice it

We were walking home from the grocery store in West Yorkshire, England, when a group of teenage boys blocked our path in a narrow alleyway. They hurled racist insults and told us to "go back home." My reaction was instantaneous: Stay quiet, avoid conflict, and get past them as quickly as possible. I grabbed my mother's arm, urging her to move with me. But she didn't.
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fromPsychology Today
21 hours ago

Can Good Learners Judge How Well They Learned?

Metacognitive judgments of learning guide study allocation, and certain inaccuracies in those judgments can improve learning effectiveness.
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2 days ago
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Embracing a Person-Centred, Strengths-Based View of ADHD

ADHD involves real challenges but also distinctive strengths that emerge when recognised and supported through a person-centred, strengths-based approach.
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2 weeks ago
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The Cognitive Skill That Makes Kids Smarter Than AI

ADHD-related creative disruption produces divergent thinking and solution-focused ideas that make humans essential in AI-driven workplaces.
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2 days ago

Don't Drown in Empathy

Cognitive empathy—understanding another's perspective without sharing their emotions—preserves resilience, improves communication, and prevents burnout from excessive affective empathy.
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2 days ago

3 Mindsets That May Be Keeping You From Reaching Your Potential

Success requires persistent work, sound planning, experimentation, repetition, and resisting instant gratification by strengthening self-efficacy and self-control.
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2 days ago

The One Simple Secret to Better Communication

Moving hands while speaking aids word retrieval and improves communication; suppressing gestures or self-consciousness hinders expressive ability.
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fromwww.theguardian.com
3 days ago

When Everyone Knows That Everyone Knows by Steven Pinker review communication breakdown

Human communication is shaped by recursive assumptions and unacknowledged baggage, complicating exchanges and requiring reason to achieve mutually beneficial outcomes.
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fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

Celebrating Jungian Analyst Marie-Louise von Franz

Marie-Louise von Franz significantly developed Jungian psychology through writings on myth, fairy tales, dreamwork, synchronicity, and linking psyche to quantum ideas.
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fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

Forgiveness Facilitates Healing for Families of Gray Divorce

Forgiveness after gray divorce reduces resentment and trauma, supporting emotional resilience and better mental and physical health for parents and adult children.
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fromBig Think
3 days ago

Why liminal spaces are your brain's secret laboratory

Liminal spaces—periods between identities or life stages—are discomforting but can be fertile laboratories for transformation, creativity, and growth.
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

The Expert Witness, the Keeper of Values

Kitty and Jose Menendez were watching TV and eating ice cream in their Beverly Hills mansion on August 20, 1989, when their sons, Erik and Lyle, came in and shot them. Lyle blamed organized crime, deflecting the investigation, but a guilt-ridden Erik confessed to a therapist. The young men were arrested. They went through two sensational trials before both were finally convicted.
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3 days ago

The Endless Measuring Stick of Infertility

Comparison frames life as a zero-sum game, erodes self-worth, intensifies fears, while holding opposites creates a transcendent pause revealing freer responses.
fromHubspot
3 days ago

The psychological reason brands use the power of association to sell

In the 1890s, Russian physiologist Ivan Pavlov noticed how dogs began salivating not just when food was placed in front of them, but when they heard the footsteps of the person bringing the food. He ran experiments where he'd ring a bell right before he fed his dogs. After repeating this several times, the dogs started salivating at the sound of the bell alone, no food needed.
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fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Why It's Hard to Forgive Yourself

Persistent present-focused memories, lack of personal agency, maladaptive coping (avoidance or rumination), and interpersonal/contextual barriers make self-forgiveness difficult for some people.
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

In Defense of Sexting

As a psychological scientist who studies sexting, I've had people ask me for all kinds of sexting advice and facts, from "How can I prevent my images from being used against me?" to "How does sexting affect young people?" to "Am I weird or what?" A quick Google search doesn't always help with these questions, returning sexting tips and tricks from Cosmo ("60 hot sexting ideas for your inspiration") adjacent to headlines like "Can sexting get you arrested?" from Teen Vogue.
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fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

Do Others Make Us Feel Things?

People frequently attribute their emotions to external people and events, treating feelings as produced by others and beyond personal control.
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5 days ago

Common Misunderstandings About CBT-E for Eating Disorders

CBT-E is a flexible, evidence-based, transdiagnostic therapy for eating disorders that addresses thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and dispels common misconceptions.
fromThe New Yorker
5 days ago

Putting ChatGPT on the Couch

I know I mentioned my profession to him, but I am pretty sure he was the one who engaged me that way. I also know how diabolically good a chatbot can be at saying what is on the tip of your tongue, and doing it before you can, and better than you might have. That makes me feel less troubled by my uncertainty.
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fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

Why You Shouldn't Judge Decisions by Results Alone

Successful outcomes often reflect luck rather than sound decision-making; lucky winners can mask widespread bad choices and poor risk assessment.
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5 days ago

Which Quality Distinguishes the Very Best Leaders?

Humble leaders energize followers, seek advice, give others a voice, and prioritize organizational goals over self-importance to achieve better outcomes.
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fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

What Does a Good ADHD Evaluation Look Like?

Accurate ADHD diagnosis requires comprehensive, holistic evaluations including clinical interviews, developmental history, and cognitive and executive function testing to avoid misdiagnosis and unnecessary stimulant treatment.
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6 days ago

The Secret Superpower of Vulnerability

In his book The Narrative Brain: The Stories Our Neurons Tell, he points out that most of the Grimm brothers' fairy tales center on the vulnerability of their heroes. This vulnerability is often borne out of an earlier trauma-abandonment or orphanhood, for example-which leaves its character hypervigilant to danger and presumably with a certain level of cunning at recognizing and responding to that threat.
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fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

Observing Aggression and Learning From It

Is aggression part of our primate nature, wired into our systems because it helps us survive, or do we learn it from such seemingly innocent occupations as watching cartoons and wrestling matches on TV? Can the answer be both? There is evidence in support of both a genetic, evolutionary source for human aggression, and for the role of observational learning in its acquisition.
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fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

What the Gorilla Saw

This phenomenon is referred to as selective attention, and a famous study designed by Simons and Chabris (1999) demonstrated it quite well. For their research, these scientists showed a video to student volunteers featuring players passing basketballs back and forth, one team in white t-shirts, and the other team in black t-shirts. The viewers were instructed to count the passes between players wearing the white t-shirts.
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fromFortune
6 days ago

Former U.S. Secret Service agent says bringing your authentic self to work stifles teamwork: 'You don't get high performers, you get sloppiness' | Fortune

Bring a professional, respectful, empathetic, and competent self to work instead of your full personal 'authentic' self.
fromScary Mommy
6 days ago

Can You Stop Your Eldest Daughter From *Being* An Eldest Daughter?

I have three daughters, and while I assumed most eldest daughters of the family are bred that way by Type-A moms, it seems my own eldest daughter - who is most definitely not being raised by a Type-A mom - has already taken on some of the classic characteristics. Like when she sees me attempting a DIY project and asks for my phone so she can prepare to dial 911.
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fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

Leaders Must Embrace Differences-First, See What We Share

Uniting teams around shared human commonalities first allows leaders to better leverage diverse perspectives for collaboration and innovation.
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fromFortune
1 week ago

Do you know your attachment style? It could be the reason you're not getting promoted at work | Fortune

Insecure attachment styles—disorganized, anxious, or avoidant—undermine workplace relationships, emotional regulation, collaboration, and promotion prospects, while secure attachment supports career progression.
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fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

How Family Routines Can Boost Creativity at Work

Making small, deliberate changes to family routines builds flow and self-efficacy at home, which increases creativity, adaptability, and innovation at work.
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6 days ago

The Power and Peril of Trust

Trust is our basic response to people and the things they tell us (Grice, 1975; Schwarz & Jalbert, 2020). If someone tells us something, we tend to believe they are doing their best to tell us the truth. If we walk into a store, we trust the prices listed are what we'll pay. We trust that the item inside the box is what's listed on the outside of the box.
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fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

How the Attention Economy Feeds Conflict

The attention economy stokes conflict, turning social media platforms into merchants of hate. One part of this dynamic concerns upsetting stories that get to the top of the feed. But why does attention run to the latest sensational murder rather than some good-news story? Social media algorithms are designed to give the most visibility to disturbing stories. 1 However, the algorithms work as they do because of the way that the attention systems of our brains evolved.
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fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

"I've Never Been Chosen"

Cultural and attachment wounds drive women toward 'pick-me' behaviors, producing shame, craving external validation, and requiring self-choice plus systemic change for healing.
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fromScary Mommy
1 week ago

How To Make Your Orgasms Last Longer (& Feel Stronger)

It's important to recognize that everyone's orgasms are different. And your orgasm can change from time to time based on mood, hormonal levels, the kind of stimulation you're using, who you're with, and even your own stress levels, says licensed sexologist and relationship therapist Sofie Roos. "For some, it's a short and intense experience, while for others, it's more like a calm and warm wave of pleasure that you ride for a long time."
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fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Addiction Considerations, Self-Empowerment, and Resolutions

Functionalism, psychoanalysis, and behaviorism led to REBT, Cognitive Therapy, and Reality Therapy, culminating in cognitive behavioral therapy emphasizing agency and present-focused change.
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fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Psychology, Art, and Activism

Artivism combines art and activism to promote social justice, collective healing, and individual empowerment and serves as a tool for wellness and social transformation.
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Can We Train Students' Brains to Be Less Biased?

Everyone employs bias-otherwise known as cognitive shortcuts-in their lives every day. Imagine you're scrolling through your social media feed and immediately dismiss a news article because it comes from a source you don't typically trust. Or maybe you're convinced your favorite restaurant is the best in town, remembering all the great meals you've eaten there while forgetting that mediocre dinner last month.
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fromCornell Chronicle
1 week ago

Safety first: Babies heighten adults' perception of threats | Cornell Chronicle

Caring for a baby causes adults to perceive environment as more dangerous, increasing threat detection and perceived speed of oncoming cars, especially for crawling infants.
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fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

The Grievance Engine

Resentment is persistent, rumination-driven grievance that fuels aggression without directly causing violence, amplified by social media and heightened justice sensitivity.
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fromBig Think
1 week ago

Why do only humans weep? The evolutionary puzzle of crying.

Tears are an involuntary, conspicuous human signal engineered to create common knowledge and to signal defeat, coordinating conflict resolution and preventing further fighting.
fromBustle
1 week ago

These 4 Zodiac Signs Are The Worst Emergency Contacts

Whether it's a partner, friend, or family member, certain people have what it takes to act fast under pressure. Others? Not so much. You know someone would make a horrible emergency contact if they're accident-prone themselves. If you're hobbling out of the doctor's office on crutches, the last thing you need is a chaotic friend closing the car door on your foot.
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fromYourTango
1 week ago

Boomers Who Judge Younger People For No Good Reason Almost Always Complain About These 11 Things

Intergenerational tensions stem from differing values, perceived realistic and symbolic threats, and complaints about technology, communication, and work ethic.
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fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Fresh approaches needed to tackle political age of rage', US study suggests

Short-term interventions modestly reduce partisan animosity but effects largely dissipate within two weeks, requiring sustained, long-term democratic reforms.
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1 week ago
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What Drains the Joy From Relationships With Narcissists?

Narcissism reduces relationship satisfaction for narcissists and their partners through unrealistic expectations, perfectionism, insecurity, jealousy, aggression, and intimacy difficulties.
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1 week ago
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How to Spot High-Functioning Narcissism

High-functioning narcissists can mask motives, maintain careers and relationships, and may not show genuine change despite appearing polished.
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1 week ago

Is Being Agreeable Good or Bad for You?

Agreeableness predicts greater happiness, social harmony, workplace and academic engagement, but may be linked with lower financial success.
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

How Do You Handle Failure at Work?

When faced with failure, do you tend to react with anger or hurt? Do you get defensive, deny a role in what happened, or perhaps deny that failure even occurred? Do you slant information to avoid looking guilty, or come up with a laundry list of reasons for the failure that were outside of your control? Perhaps you try being nice with the hopes that others will overlook the failure or point their fingers elsewhere.
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fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Why You Can't Win With a Tomato

Back in college, I worked in the produce department of a local grocery store. I spent a lot of early mornings unloading cases of apples, oranges, and everything else from the back of a semi, then restocking shelves throughout the day. It wasn't glamorous, but it was oddly satisfying. Over time, I developed what felt like a quiet superpower: I could pick fruit with the best of them.
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fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Longer words and real reflection: the science behind a convincing apology

Using longer, more elaborate words in apologies increases perceived sincerity because listeners infer greater effort and contrition.
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fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

How modern life makes us sick and what to do about it

Evolutionary mismatch causes instincts adapted to ancestral environments to misalign with modern contexts, producing impulses that often undermine long-term goals.
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

How Our Morals Might Get in the Way of Behavior Change

In the 1960s and 70s, researchers showed that while people's actions are heavily influenced by the context around them, we tend to explain behavior by focusing on internal traits. This tendency, for example, to say someone was rude because they are a rude person, rather than because they were in a stressful situation, is called the Fundamental Attribution Error. We pay less attention to the context and attribute behavior to the content of a person's character.
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1 week ago

The Secret We're Keeping: Why We Hide Our Use of AI at Work

Many employees conceal workplace AI use, causing stress, imposter syndrome, and eroding trust; clear standards and transparency enable trust and sustainable success.
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fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Why Can't Some People See the Truth?

Perceptual accuracy develops over time and individuals often interpret facts to fit emotional needs, producing divergent beliefs about objective truth.
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fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Quick Strategies to Boost Working Memory

Use external supports and offloading strategies to reduce working memory demands and improve daily functioning, especially for people with ADHD.
fromMail Online
1 week ago

What your favourite COLOUR says about you, according to scuebce

'Successive generations are defined by sets of values, beliefs and behaviours that also manifest visually - most notably through their own distinctive colours,' the experts explained in an article for The Conversation. 'Segmenting by generation - boomers, X, Y, Z, Alpha - thus allows us to observe chromatic preferences that are not merely matters of individual taste, but reflections of a collective relationship to time, aspirations and dominant aesthetics.'
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1 week ago

Understanding the Ladder of Inference to Make Better Decisions

Ladder of inference is a step-by-step process that you naturally follow while making decisions. The seven steps of this decision-making process are observation, data selection, interpretation, assumptions, conclusion, beliefs, and action. The ladder of inference is a metaphorical model of cognition and action designed by an American business theorist, Chris Argyris, in the 1970s. He created it to help people understand the decision-making process and avoid jumping to wrong conclusions. It was later popularized by Peter Senge in his book 'The Fifth Discipline'.
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fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Troubled Teens and Online Radicalization

Troubled teens actively seek extremist online content because sites meet unmet psychological needs, offering explanations, belonging, and validation that reinforce violent fantasies.
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fromBig Think
1 week ago

The 4 hidden forces underneath every argument

High conflict creates self-perpetuating, us-versus-them cycles that erode trust and damage relationships, but recognizing mutual needs can create opportunities to resolve it.
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fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

6 Rules for a Perfect Hug, According to Science

Deep, warm pressure and a hug lasting about 5–10 seconds maximize feelings of social connection; adjust duration by relationship.
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fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

What Makes a Good Reputation?

Social-evaluative situations trigger the sympathetic fight-or-flight response because human survival historically depended on reputation and social standing.
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2 weeks ago

The Importance of Recognizing Moral Trauma in Clinical Care

Severe disruption of moral understanding through committing, witnessing, or betrayal can cause profound guilt, shame, and a distinct moral injury separate from PTSD.
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fromBustle
2 weeks ago

The 5 Sexual Fantasies That Are More Common Than You Think

Many people commonly fantasize about public sex, threesomes, infidelity, and dominance; such sexual fantasies are common, normal, and may remain purely imaginary.
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2 weeks ago

Letting Go in MIdlife

Midlife restlessness signals a drive to pursue meaningful change; embrace discomfort, leave comfort zones, and act to create purpose, passion, and legacy.
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fromFast Company
2 weeks ago

Just laid off? Here's how to figure out what's next

A layoff can be a painful identity rupture yet also a deliberate turning point to reframe and author a more meaningful career story.
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fromFast Company
2 weeks ago

TikTok's 'rare aesthetic' trend proves your weirdest childhood memories weren't just yours

A TikTok 'rare aesthetic' trend romanticizes mundane childhood memories, revealing that specific memories are widely shared and fostering communal nostalgia.
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fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Your Personality May Change Day to Day More Than You Realize

Personality fluctuates daily; traits represent aggregated momentary states and can be tracked using brief repeated assessments to reveal adaptability.
fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

I Can't Stop Procrastinating. Maybe I Should (Finally) Start Hypnosis?

Much of our common understanding of hypnosis has been gleaned from mind-control plots in Hollywood movies or hokey on-stage demonstrations. On this episode of How To!, Carvell Wallace brings on Stanford University psychiatrist and researcher Dr. David Spiegel to talk about what hypnosis is (and isn't), as well as its potential to address stress, pain, and even athletic performance. Plus, with Carvell wrestling with an ongoing major project, Dr. Spiegel tests our host's hypnotizability-then leads him through an exercise aimed at confronting procrastination.
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2 weeks ago

Why Yawns Help Us Spot Spiders and Cockroaches Faster

Contagious yawning functions as a social alarm that increases group vigilance, improving rapid detection of threats like spiders and cockroaches.
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2 weeks ago

Get Upstream of the Craving

Environmental cues conditioned to past rewards activate brain reward centers, causing cravings and relapse; identifying and reducing triggers helps prevent unwanted behaviors.
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2 weeks ago

'Sorrow's Long Road': A Book Review

The question of whether there's a science to grief comes at a time when prolonged grief disorder is included in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders as a medical condition treatable by drugs. DSM-5 TR (2022)defines extended grief in adults as lasting more than one year, and in children and adolescents for more than six months. For a diagnosis to occur, the grief should "last longer than might be expected based on social, cultural, or religious norms."
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fromBig Think
2 weeks ago

Neuroscience shows that speed reading is bullshit

Speed reading claims are false; human vision and cognition prevent dramatically increased reading speed without severe loss of comprehension.
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2 weeks ago

How to Deal When You Feel Judged

Most of us know the pain and isolation that occurs when we feel judged unfairly by others. We can move through the discomfort of judgment by understanding the reasons why others judge. By focusing on forgiveness and learning the lessons of our situation, we can adopt a healthy mindset. We all make mistakes. Sitting in the discomfort that judgment creates can deepen our connection to humanity.
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fromFast Company
2 weeks ago

Why 'speak up culture' is a lie

Promoting a 'speak up' culture without genuine psychological safety, training, and supportive environments risks exposing employees to harm rather than empowering them.
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2 weeks ago

When Estrangement Masks Abuse

Assess for coercive control to distinguish justified estrangement from manipulation-driven fractured attachments and protect clients' agency and healthy relationships.
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2 weeks ago

Healing the Emotional Scars of Financial Regret

Money mistakes happen. We've all had that moment of overspending, taking on debt or making an investment that didn't work out. Financial mistakes are part of being human, but for many, these mistakes come with the heavy burden of shame. Unlike guilt, which can motivate us to change our behavior, shame can leave us stuck. Understanding how shame shows up and learning how to work through it can create a path toward a healthier relationship with money.
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